How to control a woman mind and make her love you

If you want to know how to control a woman mind and make her love non-stop, (the type to run for her phone when you call her) and to only think about you and absolutely no one else then this post is going to help you know how to control a woman mind and make her love you without using mind games or even lots of hard work.

Now a big clue is to emotionally charge her, so keep reading. This is Mansumo and welcome to my blog

How to control a woman mind and make her love you: 13 Subtle Tips

How to control a woman mind and make her love you

#1. Think about her happiness.

It’s selfish to think only think on “how do I get her to want to spend the night with me? Or how do I make her obsessed with wanting to date me?”

Instead you need to switch the talk to how do I make her feel good and make her feel happy. A big key in female attraction is making her feel comfortable and you should know that a woman is a heap of emotion.

So you need to make her feel good about herself way before the attraction even begins, so think about some of the things that she enjoys.

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What does she talk about a lot? If you know what it is, join in on that conversation and bring out her happiness.

#2. Get to know her on a deeper level.

Forget the nice compliments and all the small talk; instead you have to root a lot deeper. The deeper your  conversations are, the more she’s attracted to  you and obviously the more attraction which means  she will feel much more addicted.

A deep connection does take a bit of time though, it’s not something that you can rush and if you start talking about childhood memories in say the first two hours of meeting a girl she may think that you have a lot of built up childhood trauma and you need to see a therapist to sort it out, so make sure the deep conversations happen at appropriate times.

Start by being present with her and actually listen when she speaks. Remember parts of the conversation that she says and bring them up in the future.

Ask her follow-up questions about what she’s talking about and this will help. When you are hanging out together make sure that she gets your full attention.

Stop looking at your phone, stop multitasking, and just enjoy your time with her.

You may think its harmless checking your emails on a date, in her head she sees this as very rude and as soon as the negative emotions come in, she’s far less likely to turn them around.

#3. Be a great kisser.

How to control a woman mind and make her love you
How to control a woman mind and make her love you

There’s nothing worse than having a great date with someone and then the first kiss happens and you kind of wish you didn’t.

Luckily being a good kisser is a skill that you can perfect and the perfect kiss is one that has a push and a pull tension.

Sometimes you take the lead and then  sometimes she does, you need to make sure there  is lots of passion and think about passionately  kissing her throughout the day not just before you  want to go out there and get something.

Women pick up on  this very quick, they realize what type of kiss you  give to signal that you want to go to the bedroom,  so keep things exciting and passionately kiss her  without going to the next level all the time.

#4. Show off your independence.

Women don’t want to fix up a man; they have their own lives to live. Detach  from your parents, pay your own phone bill, clean  your apartment and make her feel like you can live  comfortably on your own because any sign that you  are tied down to something else and the lack of  independence is going to turn her off completely.

#5. Dress and groom yourself well.

Looking good will  make you feel good which gives you a confidence  boost which is amazing but also looking good  means that you attract other females which makes  your status much higher and even the lady you are  dating will feel good when you’re wanted by many.

#6. Be a gentleman.

How to control a woman mind and make her love you

Open the door, pull out a chair and make her feel like you genuinely do care about her.  This is really just being nice, kind and humble.

This also means being a gentleman with her in public in front of other people such as her friends and family.

If other people make the comment “wow! Isn’t he lovely kind and nice”, she is more likely to become extremely addicted to you.

This is a subtle tip on how to control a woman mind and make her love you without her or anyone around even noticing it.

#7. Be great in bed.

So once you’ve got the low down on the perfect kiss, you need to make sure that your bedroom skills are just as good.

It’s the big intimacy builder and if you can connect your insects she will most definitely become addicted  to you.

Every woman has experienced bad sex before and despite how much information there is out there to help guys learn what to do, guy ignore it.

So go out there and do some research and practice, don’t just dive straight in and get your fill.

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Instead focus on her listen to her body and be very patient then you’re good to go. Sexual incompatibility and a lack of foreplay will stop a woman really falling for you because why should she be addicted to a guy that is trash in bed when she can just go find someone else who is much better.

#8. Be interesting.

You have your own interests and values so don’t be afraid to bring them up in a conversation and obviously she has her own interests and values so you bring up hers as well.

Dating can get very boring if there is nothing new to talk about so start learning some new facts and topics to engage her with.

You can bring up some funny topics or my personal favorite; ask lots of open-ended questions to keep the conversation going which then will lead into those deep conversations.

You aren’t going to be spending all of your time in the bedroom so you need to make sure that you are interesting to stay around when you were just sat there on the sofa with each other.

If you feel embarrassed to talk about the  things that you enjoy then you have no reason to  at all because the right lady will support that  and you may find that she actually buys you the  best Christmas presents because she listens  to all the niche things that you talk about.

#9. Show your vulnerable side.

A woman connects with  others through their emotions, she wants to know  how someone feels, not to fix them or change their  emotional state but to just make them feel loved  and to feel heard and if a woman is struggling  to connect with you she’s not going to be able  to take the relationship too serious.

It’s sexy knowing that a guy can be vulnerable. Despite what you think women understand your emotions even if you do try to hide them.

So by putting up a fake front makes you look like a complete tool because women can see straight through it, so you may as well be honest and vulnerable and get some good  brownie points.

#10. Be confident.

You may feel nervous on the inside but the art is to make it seem like you most definitely are not.

The more you practice  confidence and getting out of your comfort zone,  the easier it feels and if you are able to remain  confident in her presence, she’s going to feel at  ease and know that she’s dating a man instead of a  nervous boy.

This is a very crucial tip on How to control a woman mind and make her love you, and it goes beyond that. Confidence is to women what physical beauty is to men.

#11. Take the lead.

How to control a woman mind and make her love you

Stop leaving everything up to the woman. Go out there and plan a date from start to finish and just pick her up and take her out.

Surprise her with gifts and please stop making her plan everything. Guys usually take the back seat and let the woman do all of the planning.

So by switching up the roles, she will really appreciate it. Taking that initiative shows her that you are confident and really care about her and have the whole independence thing sorted.

You may think leaving the holiday planning to your girlfriend is best because she is much better at it than you when in fact she just feels like you don’t actually respect or care for her and that she has to pick up a job that you can’t do.

#12.  Learn her love language.

The next tip on How to control a woman mind and make her love you is to learn her love language. We did mention this at the very start of the post. Everyone has a predominant love language and learning hers and acting on it means she will well melt in your hands.

She truly becomes wanted, heard and loved and will want to keep you around in her life for good.

#13.  Tease her and have fun.

Playful teasing and flirting makes the relationship fun because it shows that you are paying her direct attention which makes her feel desired and wanted.

Flirting needs to happen regularly to keep the passion alive.

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How to control a woman mind and make her love you
How to control a woman mind and make her love you

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