How does an alpha male pursue a woman? Do alpha male go out of their way to show a girl that they love her and compromise their beliefs and choices just to proof to a girl that they like her? Well keep reading this blog post.
Because after reading this post you will find out three subtle moves used by alpha males to pursue the women they want.
You see in most cases, alpha males do not even chase these women; the women crave to be with them. They seek his approval; they want to be with him.
The Alpha male knows how to pursue the woman of his dreams such hence he is less like to experience a scenario where the girl tells him that she needs space and time to think, you guys know what I’m talking about.
And if he gets such statements or response from a woman he is into, he is already hardwired to know how exactly to act and get her to be the one craving to be with him rather than the other way round.
After reading this post, you will find out why only 20% of males tend to smash 80% of women by tweaking their mindset to fit into the unconscious needs of women.
How does an alpha male pursue a woman: Introduction
Last night I was contacted through the contact page of this blog by some guy, he was like I’m 18 years old and I’m over six foot tall and I just can’t seem to get girls I don’t know what’s going on, how does an alpha male pursue a woman ?
He’s like the only thing I’ve done was kissed two girls in like a three-week span that was the most I’ve ever done.
He’s like I don’t know what to do. Basically, how does an alpha male pursue a woman?
In this blog post I will reveal the secret to get any girl you want. The guy who hit me up last night was doing his best to get girls but he just can’t.
After reading this blog post you’ll find out that almost everything you know about how to chase is woman is wrong, and I’m using the word ‘chase’ with a grain of salt because alpha males do not chase women they attract women.
So, how does an alpha male pursue a woman?
Let’s get started.
The secret to get any girl you want is to have what I call ‘Out Independence Mindset. This is the number one thing you need to adopt as a man to be able to pull any chick you want.
Outcome independent means that you don’t care what happens. A lot of guys think if I want her bad enough that’s going to make her want me, No!
A lot of guys think hey if I chase her long enough that’s going to make her change her mind one day and like me, No!
That’s not how you can pull any girl you want to. You want to be able to date chicks that are chasing you. There’s no point in me being with a girl that does not want and is not pursuing me more.
I’m not here to be a mitad mitad its Spanish word half and half. it’s not half and half for me it’s that you’re going to chase me and in order for you to be able to get that is you for you to be outcome independent.
If you’re curious find the answer to the question how does an alpha male pursue a woman? You have to show to this girl that you don’t care what happens.
But to get to that you have to do three things. Follow this three steps I’m about to roll out and you must have found the answer to the question “how does an alpha male pursue a woman?”
How does an alpha Male pursue a woman: 3 Subtle Hacks Used by Alpha Males
You have to be undeniable before you cannot care what outcome comes from any interaction with a girl.
You have to be undeniable. If you’re not undeniable you’re going to still care what happens. What is undeniable? I hear you asking.
To be undeniable means that you have to be the best you can be in everything game, looks, style and status.
You have to be the best, that’s how you can be undeniable. That’s how you can have the outcome independence.
You have to have your game, looks, style and status in shape then you’re undeniable.
Once you know that she can’t do much better than you then you begin to feel undeniable. Because what begins to happen unconscious in your mind is that you begin to know that there are very few guys do who are going to look like you, have as much status as you, have as much style and as much game as you.
This is going to give you that outcome independence. You’re going to know that you don’t even care whatever happens.
Getting women is a mindset thing. You will be shocked to know that there are billionaires who can’t pull chicks, there are guys who are extremely good-looking who can’t pull chicks, there are also guys who claim they have a mouthpiece but they still can’t keep girls around, it’s that mindset of I don’t care what happens that will attract girls to you.
This is what’s going to gravitate girls towards you. Girls are attracted to men who don’t care whatever happens.
You won’t get every girl
To answer the question how does an alpha male pursue a woman, the second thing you must understand and do is to understand that you won’t get every girl.
That’s part of the outcome independence. You won’t get every girl even after you become undeniable, even after you’ve worked on yourself, even after you hit the gym hard, you improve your style, you’re known or you’re known in your community.
Whatever you do, even if you have game, you’re charismatic, you can talk to chicks, or you can sweet talk any girl, you’re still not going get every girl.
That’s that outcome independence, that’s the mindset that you need to pull chicks but let me tell you something, let me give you an example, I had a girl last week that I tried to set plans with but she was stalling.
I stopped responding, I didn’t care, I moved on. Guess who hit me up an hour ago on my instagram DMs? The same girl that I pursued tried to set a date that didn’t work out.
Why do you think she came back? I did not care if I lost her that’s the mindset that men have to adopt.
I don’t care if I lose you, I don’t care if you don’t want me. I don’t care and nine times out of ten what that does is it makes girls come back.
They’re like whoa! Okay this dude is good looking, he has style but maybe whatever for whatever reason she might have wanted you to pursue a little harder or she wasn’t so sold on you and you showed her that you don’t care.
She will always come back. This is happening to me more and more every time. The more I can ingrain this mindset inside of me that I am undeniable, that I am outcome independent, that I don’t care what happens, the more she feels attracted towards me.
I literally do not care when I go up to a chick when I’m approaching the chick, well if I DM a chick I don’t care what happens.
If it’s not the outcome that I want I feel unbothered. What this does is that it forces girls to have to chase me now.
You have to chase me I don’t care if I put myself out there, if I give you a chance to be a part of my life and you don’t take it now you have to chase me.
This is the one thing that has changed my life. Every day I just don’t care but I’m still going to put in the work.
I’m going to be undeniable; I’m going to make sure I’m the best I can be in game, style, looks and status.
These four has to be in place. I am not saying you have to be somebody else, No! What I am saying is that you have to be the best you can be in these four things, and then you become undeniable because 99 of guys are not even going to have half of these.
How many guys do you know that have game status and looks? Almost zero. How many guys do you know that have game, status, looks and style? Pretty much none right.
Even those guys at the top of the top materially, a lot of those guys don’t have true game. They depend on their status to get them girls but they can’t keep girls around.
Girls end up using them.
Put yourself out there
Finally guys the last thing you must do to find the answer to the question how does an alpha male pursue a woman and to be able to get any girl you want is you must put yourself out there.
Guys I cannot stress this enough. You guys are expecting a chick to come knock on your door? You are expecting girls to come knock on your door? It is never going to happen!
You have to be putting yourself out there, everywhere!
I already have girls in line and I’m still putting myself out there, if you want to pull the girls you want, the secret is that you must be putting yourself out there.
You can’t just meet girls online, meet girls in person too. You can’t just meet girls in person, meet them on Instagram too. Meet them on Tiktok, meet them on twitter.
Wherever you can meet them, meet them. The more you can cast your net out there, do cast them.
Imagine you’re a fisher man and you have a big old net and then you throw it out there and pull it, you will notice that you will start to gather all the fish.
Now, imagine if I don’t ever throw the net and I just expect fish to come to me, no way!
If you want to be a successful fisher, if you want to be successful in pulling girls you have to throw a big enough net so when you throw it out there you can get as much fish.
This is how dating works. Some guys think that it is stupid to use dating apps; you are living under the rock.
If you don’t use dating apps where millions of girls are already then what does that tell me about how seriously you take meeting chicks.
Why would I not use dating apps? Why should I not cast my net where I can get more chicks?. Some guys even feel threatened to cold approach women.
Why would you not go and approach a girl if you see a girl you like? You better go talk to her. If you’re walking past a girl who’s hot and you want her, talk to her.
These days there are ton of dating apps springing in their numbers online. We’ve got tinder, instagram, bumble and so on.
Whatever dating app you can use to cast a big enough net to attract more girls, use it. Remember the guy I told you about in the beginning of this blog post who had a hard time keeping women? That guy, I can guarantee you do not use all of his options.
He is probably relying on moon girls in just one place. I meet girls at the mall, grocery store, bank, church, wherever! If a girl is attractive enough to me.
My nest is always being cast because I got to keep my rotation going, the big enough net you get, the more fish you can get.
The more fish you can get, the more options you get and that gives you the outcome independence mentality I talked about above.
That mindset that hey I don’t care what happens now, that you are more valuable to women, that you’re more attractive to women, that you can pull any girl you want to because you don’t care .
How does an alpha male pursue a woman: Summary
To answer the question “How does an alpha male pursue a woman?” I walked you through three crucial steps used by the one percent of alpha males to pull any woman they want.
First, you must become the best you can be in these four things: Your looks, style, game and status you will discover that you are in this top one percent of guys.
Even if you’re not famous, even if you’re not on TV, if you can be the best you can be in your game, style, looks and status, you make yourself undeniable, you don’t care what happens, you know that you are not going to get every girl and you put yourself out there then this will literally turn you to a magnet around girls and flip your world around where you know longer have to chase girls but you pull them in since you’re the prize.
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